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Your Plans May Crumble, But…

Have you ever had one of those weeks where absolutely nothing goes according to plan? If you’re a living, breathing human, there’s a high likelihood that your schedule has been fed through the shredder on multiple occasions. As I write this little blog post, I’m sitting under the canopy of a magnificent Banyan tree about four ...

Where Are You Looking?

Have you heard of a syndrome called Text Neck? It’s a real thing. If we’re being honest, though, it’s not exactly a surprising thing. Chances are, you’ve already guessed what “Text Neck” syndrome is. Here’s how one website breaks it down: “Text neck (or tech neck) is a syndrome that happens after a repeated amount of ...

When You’re Feeling Breathless

Have you been sprinting on the treadmill of life without a pause? Perhaps you're out of breath and exhausted. But maybe you feel like you have no choice but to keep pushing harder. For some, that looks like pulling endless hours at a thankless job. For others, breathless sprinting looks like sleepless nights with cranky, clingy little ...

A Cancelled Vacation Showed Me What Love is Not

As we compared our kids’ school calendar with my husband’s work schedule, one thing became painfully evident: we wouldn’t be able to take a family vacation for the next few months. I could feel irritation (bordering on anger) rise inside me. “Are you absolutely sure you can’t take a break?” I asked my husband, my voice whiny ...

Why Risking Vulnerability is Worth It

A couple of weeks ago, I had the joy of attending my college reunion. It has been 25 years since we, the class of ’99, graduated from our programs. We were thrilled to see each other again. There were warm hugs, choruses of “hiiiii’s,” high-pitched screeches of excitement, and giggles like we were back in ...

What’s Holding You Back?

Did you happen to watch the Olympic 100 meters? Talk about a nail-biting finish. The first and second place were as close as close gets. Noah Lyles won the 100 meters by an incredible .005 seconds to beat Kishane Thompson of Jamaica. It was probably the closest ever 1-2 finish in the 100 meters in Olympic history. ...

Your Regrets Are Not Irredeemable

Earlier this week, a record played in my ear. A record of my regrets. Some of them were of the ‘silly’ variety. Some were more serious. I regretted that I wasn't more disciplined with my diet before my 25th college reunion this weekend. I regretted that I had yelled at my teenage daughter for “disrespecting” me when ...

A Legacy of Selfless Joy

Funerals are always sorrowful and deeply sobering. But when it’s the funeral of a 21-year-old girl who bravely battled cancer, radiating joy through every painful moment, it’s not just heart-wrenching, it’s also life-transforming. Jenita is the daughter of my husband’s cousin, Rajiv. Or, more accurately, as Rajiv said at her funeral, he is “Jenita’s dad.” We ...

To My Fellow Mamas Of Teenagers

We’re in the thick of it. The thick of what, you ask? Raising teens, that’s what. The husband and I are the proud parents of a 16-year-old boy and an almost 15-year-old girl. So, as I said, we’re in the middle of those supposedly rebellious, angsty, door-slamming, defiant, hell-raising teen years. But here’s what we’ve been discovering: the ...
MEET SUSAN

I love words. But you probably figured that out by now, considering this website essentially collates my words on the web. Read More…