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When Shame Keeps You In Hiding

As part of an online accountability group for a "healthy lifestyle," I’ve signed up for a few fairly awkward things. For one, I tell a group of about 20 people how much I weigh every day. Thankfully, others on the group “weigh in” too (literally speaking) so it’s not overly embarrassing. Other things we do include ...

When You Feel Like Crawling Into A Hole

The other day, I was invited to share from the Word with a small group. They were an unassuming, unthreatening bunch of folk. My material was prepped and ready to go. In fact, I had presented the same content twice before to other groups. Plus, I was speaking from Scripture to a group of Christians, ...

What’s So Amazing About Guilt?

Guilt has a bad rap. For obvious reasons. It dredges up memories we would rather forget and swirls up emotions we would rather ignore. No one wants to feel guilty. Or, as we like to say, no one wants to go on a “guilt trip.” Guilt “trips” are not fun little vacations. They usually make us want ...

The Word That May Become Obsolete

It’s a word relegated to courtroom dramas where the jury delivers a verdict. Other than that, it doesn’t bubble up too often in popular culture. It’s considered an ugly word that has no room in our “evolved” modern lives. I’m speaking of the word, “guilt.” In our “no regrets” culture, guilt is a taboo emotion, and is used ...

When Your Kids Call You Out

If there’s anyone who “tells it like it is” it’s our kids. They don't mince words when they speak. They don’t sugarcoat things so it sounds politically correct or palatable. They don’t hide behind nice-isms and platitudes. And, often, their honest words are exactly what we need to hear. Let’s take a sample of some of the comments ...
MEET SUSAN

I love words. But you probably figured that out by now, considering this website essentially collates my words on the web. Read More…