Susan Narjala
Keeping it Real
We’re To Do This “Above All Else”
If you were to walk into my apartment building, you’d probably be stopped at the entrance. A security guard would check your “gate pass”—a notification on an app that deems you’re pre-approved to enter the building. If you don’t have the gate pass, the security guy will take your name and the apartment number you plan to visit, and he’ll wait for the homeowner’s okay on the app. It’s only then that he’ll give you a supercilious nod. You’re good to go.
To the uninitiated, don’t worry, I have not been incarcerated in a maximum-security prison. This is just the system at most apartment buildings in Bangalore where I live.
At least, that’s how it’s supposed to work. If, however, you look confident enough, act like you live in the apartment, and walk in without hesitation, you’re unlikely to be stopped. The security guy will let his guard down because he’ll believe that you belong in the building. With about 150 flats, they don’t always know who is a resident and who isn’t.
If you’re familiar with my blog, you’ve guessed by now that this is a long-drawn-out analogy. Your guess would be right.
As I read Proverbs 4 this morning, I was struck by verse 23:
Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.
(The analogy is slowly starting to take shape, isn’t it?)
Proverbs 4 goes on to say that we should be careful with the words we speak, the things we look at, and the paths we walk on. But, above all these eternal behavior patterns, the author of Proverbs says to his readers (and to us): Guard your heart.
God cares about the state of our hearts, not the sum of our actions. In Scripture, we see this repeated emphasis on our hearts.
So, how do we guard our hearts? What does that mean, exactly?
Proverbs also points out that “For as he thinks in his heart, so is he.” (Proverbs 23:7).
Guarding our hearts therefore involves guarding the thoughts in our hearts.
Let’s go back to our security guys analogy.
Our thoughts are like visitors who come to the gate of my apartment. We are called to be radically exacting about what we let through that gate. Think of a mustached, uniformed, somewhat burly, definitely irritable Indian guard. Not much gets past him.
Firstly, we ought to examine the thought that’s at the gate. Look at its “gate pass”—is it pre-approved to be there? Does it make the Philippians 4:8 test of things that are true, noble, right, pure, excellent, praiseworthy, lovely, and admirable?
Secondly, if it doesn’t have the gate pass, we ought to ID that thought a fair bit more: Where is it coming from? What’s its name? What business does it have on the 9th floor (that would refer to our “lofty” minds)?
Only if we can identify and approve the thoughts, do we let them into the building and up the elevator to our minds. Because once they’re in, they tend to make themselves comfortable.
The problem is that some thoughts waltz in, don’t they? Like those fake residents without a gate pass, they have an air of confidence. They’ve visited us before—way too many times. They have created their own neural pathways—we typically call it our wiring—in our brains. We’re accustomed to them. We let them hang out. We let them define our day, our week, our habits, our character, and, eventually, our lives.
Here’s an example:
Thought = I’m doing a terrible job on this project. I am only here because my boss hasn’t had a chance to fire me yet.
Next stop on the neural pathway = I am incompetent at work.
At the next pitstop = I am useless at pretty much everything I try to do.
We end up defining ourselves and our character because of one work project.
But here’s the thing: God empowers you to take captive your thoughts. Through the Holy Spirit, you can show those thoughts the exit gate. And through His Word, you can renew your mind.
Can we take the time to identify and name the specific thoughts that have slipped through without a gate pass?
Can we recognize that those negative, sinful thoughts simply do not belong in our minds/ hearts?
Can we fill the storehouse of our minds with the truth of God’s Word?
Can we allow the Spirit of God to rewire our brains so that when the thought barges in, we redirect it to the truth of God’s Word?
Can we dwell in the new truth about who we are in Christ?
That’s how we can guard our hearts—by fiercely guarding the thoughts we let reside in the core of our being.
Sure, we can regulate our actions and modify our behavior. But above all else, we are called to guard our hearts.
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4 Comments
Tierra
This was so well written. It kept me wanting to know more and it resonates with me deeply. I tend to let a negative thought slide through every so often and it’s so hard to get it out sometimes which we all knows eventually turns to very bad anxiety. Thanks for the security guard story it gave me another way to look at it and another way to STOP it. I’m so glad the holy spirit told me to choose your plan on youversion which led me here. Thanks for blessing the world with your talent. Xoxo
Susan Narjala
Hi Tierra! Thank you so much for stopping by and taking the time to comment on the post. I think all of us experience some level of anxiety. I too am trying to surrender to God those anxious thoughts before they waltz in and make themselves too comfy. I guess sometimes it’s a moment-by-moment surrender. But the Holy Spirit empowers us! Thank you for your encouragement.
Kari
Well said! It’s like you live in my head and heart. I know who does live there and He used you to remind me of His Spirit who is ready to battle my wrong thoughts. What a gift to know a fellow sister who lives on the other side of the world is battling alongside me. Thank you for your authenticity and your love of Jesus. May we finish this race strong by praying and encouraging each other. You have my prayers and I can’t wait to meet you in person. Eternity will be a gift of fellowship with our Savior and each other.
Susan Narjala
Thank you, dear Kari, for encouraging me with your words on a morning when I feel like negative, irritable thoughts are making me spiral. Thank you for praying for me. And I do hope we can meet one day :)! God bless. Susan